Lately, age differences has also created a separation as it were, younger swingers tend to associated with each other, while older swingers form their own “clicks” or social groups.
However, and this may seem strange, younger men are often interested in pursuing older women, just as older men may approach younger women.
Now, to suggest that everyone is accepted at the same level in the swinging communities would be disingenuous.
Societal perceptions that apply to everyday life still exist and exert an influence on the perception of beauty and body image.
It has often been said in the swinging community that women control what happens in swinging. After the initial nervousness wears off, it is the women who have the final say on who “parties with whom” and how (couples only, girl on girl, threesomes, group sex, including the enforcement of safe sex rules).